Its entirely the persons choice. I get angered by people who say witchcraft is all about black magic and satanism, blah blah. But then also, i dont like how wishy-washy paganism (a religion that embraces witchcraft) is portrayed as being fully positive. Witches, pagans, wiccans- whichever path one follows, used to focus on the negative side of life too, and focus on it for a little while to aid personal development. Alot of that has gone out the window now, which sucks. Witches dont like to use black magic, but know when its appropriate.
Magic can be used in all situations present in life, its nothing supernatural or nothing...its the natural forces in the universe. I understand what Pegasus is saying, i dont think its wrong in the slightest, because magic is a part of every day life. Try it out and see what happens. Talking may help too, but do whatever is right =)